Welcome back and thank you once again for sharing this amazing journey with me.
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Wow, It’s really May!?!?! Is anybody else having an amazing year!?!
Well, last week we got caught up through the end of 2009 with our businesses. At the end of 2009 we were camping up on Berthoud Pass in Colorado. That night we took our first ever moonboarding ride. It was amazing. We hiked up to about 12,000 feet and watched the sun set and the stars come out. There was a blue moon that night! What an amazing time of the year. And the next one wouldn’t happen again on New Year’s Eve until 2028. As I think back to that time it really makes me wonder what other events we take as always happening that don’t really happen that often? Our first kiss, when’s the last time we remembered that one? Why not relive that tonight with your loved one, ah the feeling of it.
Those are such great memories. And this one was truly great for me. And we started off with so much gusto into 2010. We first meet with John to discuss an opportunity for a house that just walked right up to us and tapped us on the shoulder. That’s what living into the Law of Attraction is like. It truly just knocks on your front door sometimes and will amaze you at every waking moment when you look at all the marvelous connections our life patterns make.
The master mind group shows up at our house in one of those amazing alignments of miracles we had come to see so often in our lives over the past month. We had clearly defined what we needed in our lives to go to the next level with our companies and 12 people arrived at our front door that evening. Of all of those 12 people we realized that night as every one told a little about each of them and shared what they were doing and what brought them to the Quantum Leap program, all of them would play a role in what we were doing over time with our companies. Dale and I just knew it.
And all 12 of them showed up on our front door, and yes, they quite literally knocked and we invited them in to share in thsi amazing journey with them. We have started to build some amazing friendships with people that are incredibly supportive and encouraging. We learn more abot the greatness of human joy and love more every day from the great souls that have come into our lives. For all of you we are truly grateful.
We have found someone that cares enough about us to look over our documents and give us honset feedback that keeps us out of trouble and create win/win situations for everyone. What a blessing to have someone that knows the law and wants to see you be successful look over things. To just give us pointeers on what we should think about was beyond priceless and way more than we could have ever imagined. What amazing people.
We’ve found others that have answered the pull of the Universe and showed up to help us learn more about creating great retirement communities and making sure the contracts and agreements and all the rules and regulations are taken care of. We’ve learned about people in a few areas we are interested in who want to do what we are doing with custom mansions in great destiantions. We are moving forward with legal work in all areas to make sure our ground works is covered. This person was the parent of a QL member.
We’ve been coached that the deals we are putting together are very good and that our numbers are very low, like my a factor of 10 for what we plan of doing. We are ultra conservative which should be great for our investors.
Others in the group are teachers and people with great encouragement and phenomenal spirits. 2010 has started with some amazing changes and 12 phenomenal and new people in our lives that are vibrating at a higher level than any others we have come in contact with in my life time. Very few times have I met others with close to the same level as me. It’s just one of the things people say about me, I believe it’s something like – I wish I could bottle her passion.
Peak’s people are free of many fears and doubts and are supportive of yoru spirit and amazing greatness. If you had a chance to attend the Millionaire Mind Evening and are taking it to the next level by going to MMI, you should congratulate yourself. If you haven’t been yet and would like to go check the website for an event near you. use reference code 724007 at www.millionairemind.scom/evening
Until next time when I share the forming of VSI with you, safe and wonderful evening to all of you.
To our journey,
Val
Welcome back! And thank you for joining me once again as I share more of my personal story around breaking through and releasing fear. I have been talking to you about my first journey in releasing fear. I learned how to describe what I did here long after I did it. As I was so desperate I plowed through, messed it all up, and fell forward in my journey to eventually make it past the hurdle and keep the weight off for 3 years now.
This is part of the power of what I am sharing. For many years I struggled with my weight. I went up and down and up and up and down and up. I’m sure most of you know someone that has done that with their weight loss…. Well for me, it was because I was not changing the reason, I was just changing the symptom.
I also described in greater detail the moment of the memory. Now, keep in mind that this memory was from a 13 year old girl. That little girl didn’t understand what was happening in her life, why her dad was gone, why here mom was so sad, and why her life was so different then it was when she left Connecticut. She just understood that she was hungry, there was no food, and she couldn’t tell her mom because it would upset mom more. She was tired of seeing her mom cry and couldn’t bear doing it to her, so the little girl kept quiet.
That memory caused over two decades of weight trouble and anxiety and fear around food.
I’ve often hear people say they ‘love food’, I always cring when I hear that. Because that’s what happened to me. I loved it so much I was addicted to it. And no matter what I did, what I ate, or how hard I tried, I couldn’t stop. When I would get to that point where I was full, I would keep eating. That little 13 year old girl would pop up and say ‘you don’t know when you will have more, you better eat it’, or ‘no more is coming’, amoung others that were equally damaging and hurtful. Sometimes it was just the feeling of not know if there was going to be anymore food. The feeling of not knowing what to do and the fear that it would go on forever.
Now, please hear me on this part as it was a critical part to my releasing the fear and one of the ways I walk people through releasing fear on my audios.
I had to change the story I had associated with that event in my life. Have you ever heard anoyone say, ‘When you transcend your own experiences, you can learn and grow from them’? Well, that’s exactly what I did. At the time, I couldn’t have told you that, now I am able to articulate it.
I had a talk with myself about that moment in time. In my life now I am successful. I have had a great career in corporate America as a trainer and loved it so much I started my own company. My amazing hubby and I live in beautiful Colorado with our babies (Siberian Husky and Alaskan Malamute). I am blessed more today than any other day in my life and I feel that more and more every day. I had to talk to myself about that painful moment.
Now, if you have never had a conversation with yourself, you can start is something like this: ‘self, now listen up…’ And for those of you with experience having conversations like this, you already know that. 
Knowing what I know now, I know it will not be now or ever the case that I would go back to the situation and experience that was happening at the time I was 13 years old. I walked mself through all the reasons it was not going to happen and all the reasons that is probably wasn’t even true at that time. After that, I made my own story. And it was a better one then the default story I had played in my head for decades.
I hope my sharing with you my journey in releasing fear and anxiety it has helped you know that if you are experiencing either one or both right now, that you are not alone. I hope you are able to learn and grow from my experience and I look forward to hearing what you have to say, feel free to leave a comment.
If you are looking for the tools to take you further in your journey in the path of releasing fear and anxiety, please feel free to check out the audio exercises avaiable on the website at:
To our journey,
Val
